Helping Others Talk About What Matters the Most

5 Gentle Ways to Support Others

Practical approaches with real examples of what compassionate End-of-Life conversations can look like — so you feel prepared, not pressured.

Heartfelt Prompts & Conversation Starters

Thoughtful, gentle questions designed to open space for meaningful talks that honor every voice.

Creating Peace Through Preparation

How having these conversations before a crisis helps reduce stress, prevent conflict, and bring comfort to families. 

Guided Reflection Pages

Space for your loved one (and you) to write down wishes, values, and hopes — a legacy of love that lasts.

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Hi, I’m Joany – a registered nurse with over 20 years of experience in critical care and hospice, and the founder of JoanySpeaks. I help families and caregivers have gentle, compassionate End-of-Life conversations so every voice is heard and every wish is honored.

The Helping Others Talk About What Matters the Most Toolkit has been responsible for giving families the courage to start conversations that bring peace, reduce conflict, and create legacies of love that last for generations.

Without it, families often find themselves unprepared, facing confusion, heartbreak, and difficult decisions made in moments of crisis.

With it, you’ll have heartfelt guides, thoughtful prompts, and supportive resources to begin these sacred conversations with clarity, compassion, and confidence — so you and your loved ones can focus on what truly matters most.

So, let’s begin the conversation 

~ Joany